Doctor Love. What men really want.

There is this blog by a woman(check it out) called datingdramasofathirtysomething, she´s fun to read. She wrote a piece called What woman really want, and I made the fateful error of commenting on it, so she challenged me on writing what guys wanted. So here you go, this is what guy´s want. I´ll go quick and to the point. And maybe a little crazy.(The letters you see in bold are hers, and then is my reply.)

1-If we love our mother,you love our mother. And the other way around, so you say woman express extreme opinion about other women…that´s the freaking problem, going down the middle of the road is not that bad of idea. Plus you put us in a situation where out of the blue the other girl is going to be pisses off because the guy went along with what the girl said. Screwby that.

2-To be told we´re beautiful. Not on the days when we are feeling low, because we know you´re saying it to make us feel better….Say it when you mean it. Maybe we do mean it when you get out of bed with your hair all rattle up, that is love.

3-..Being dependent on us is a strain we can´t always handle. We are not your mother. That would be a gay guy, but at the end of the day if you love a person you share things with them and support each other. Tell Bill Clinton and Hillary, tell me if those two were´nt dependent on each other to win, maybe this is a bit extreme example but somebody should understand it.

4-Answer the damn text message, Make the promised phone call.That would mean we are dependent on you, you don´t really want a guy that is constantly drooling over you.

5-To be proud of you. Don´t drink to much. Don´t embarrass us by drinking too much.. I can´t be a good candidate  to challenge this point, but I will say that you woman will be proud of your man even if he makes a dick of himself, that is love. Then in private you can smack him around, but in public defend your man. He won´t be always perfect, neither are you!!

6-Nothing is more attractive than laughter… Agreed, although there is a fine line by crossing to the side of becoming the joke of town. So we men have to be careful, and some man are not funny and girls find that sexy, and what the fuck….it´s not all black and white.

7-To be confident in our relationship. We may pretend that we don´t care what people think, but we do. Don´t openly flirt with our best friend in a room full of people… What if we are just being funny and cordial? It´s not flirting it´s being cordial you take it as being a dick and that is your insecurity, if you really believe and know your man love you and only you, you won´t even notice that.

8-To be kissed…and by someone who knows how….. That takes practice so if you get a guy who knows how to kiss you, it´s probably because he´s a man whore, like me, so you pretty much feel your way with whatever woman your with, make her see the stars.

11-We can smell bullshit a mile away. Do yourself a favour and don´t lie to us. Know this is a put down for men, we smell bullshit the same mile away, or maybe even more. Of course we´ll lie, and you know what you will believe it because you wan´t to believe it. Most of the time though.

I´m just writing little fragment´s from her post, and she has 15 points to make about men, there interesting and funny, so I´m being maybe a little…tell you the truth a can´t handle it more. I´m getting a headache. We don´t like to be told what to do, we are men and as men we rule, unfortunately for you we are the majority in the global world, meaning the successful majority. And at the end of the day girls will always be attracted to bad boys. And when I say bad boys I´m not referring to rock stars, I´m referring to a guy that has two good pair of balls, know how to take care of himself,is confident with himself, helps her in what she needs, and he´s the Alpha male. Period. That´s what the fuck is the love doctor is saying after I just got back again from the hospital. But when I saw that comment and challenge I had to write.


  1. Hey, First of all How are you? You disappeared AGAIN and I was kinda worried if you had to got to hospital AGAIN. Are you alright now?

    Now coming to the post.
    Hahaha…Man I love when two people argue about something in a very aggressive but cute way. This was awesome. I don’t know if I completely agree with one or another but I like the point of view of both. you both are right in your own way. Obviously you are a man you brain works differently, she’s a woman her’s works differently so of course there is going to be a difference of opinion.
    But anyways I loved the post, you guys should collaborate and do this more often 😀
    (Although I know Charly you are going to have repeated headaches 😀 )

    1. Thanks for asking, and yes I do have to disappear more often than I would like too to go AGAIN to the hospital.
      Your right, if I collaborate with this woman I´ll probably have to start going to a shrink.

      1. Actually I do, It has to do with the muscles, giving massages but in a way that you´ll end up with your body hurting like hell and supposely the next day you´ll feel much better.

        I know because a girl used me…as always for you know what… and she was studying that. Never gave me a good massage of those.

      2. Haha…not on the very “Next” day but “Ultimately” yes, it’ll make you feel better 😛
        And I dont think any massage is invented for THAT.

        P.S not massages. we do EXERCISES. there is a difference 😉

      3. I´ll fix you up with a plate of potatoes with salmon which is what I´m going to eat right about…now. I´m a pretty good cook, and at the same time I´m writing on the computer. Talk about man can´t chew gum and walk at the same time.

      4. Yup ! Now you got it right !
        And I doubt if I’ll be able to help you as I’m in my first year, there is not much I know yet. I would only end up killing you by the way! 😛

      5. Killing me softly, killing me softly…
        Remember that song?
        It´s a love song, a happy song for a happy day, and happy lifeconfusions…sorry I´m just too happy today

      6. Easy, I feel physically good. My stomach doesn´t hurt like the past 3 days(because of the pancreas) and I woke up today after spending 3 days not doing anything good(I wrote about it, called “Evasive action.Don´t do this children.” You don´t have to read it but you can tell by the title.
        Anyways, I was about to really fuck things up,yet again, and I didn´t. So I´m in good health(sort off), and I´m back to writing and then I wake up at 7 a.m and see that nomination. Tell you,when you see, do, and go through all the shit I go through(which I know is my fault my decisions which I try to correct constantly)I see this little nomination and for me it becomes a big fucking deal. I feel proud of myself, and that´s a good feeling.

      7. Yeah, I got the point… I’m glad that you are ‘Up & Running’ and back with us, writing and lending us your opinions ! And you SHOULD feel proud because it IS a huge moment, I would’ve felt the same! 🙂

        P.S I know I don’t have to but I’m gonna read it anyway ! 😉

  2. A little bit of truths in each opinion. I could elaborate on all of them but I feel strongly about defending my choices….

    “Bad boys are fun for a while, but no woman wants a long term relationship with a guy who can’t pick up his own mess, act responsibly around her family or treat her like she’s special every now and again 🙂 ”

    The truth is with the Bad Boys, when they treat you special, it’s really fucking special. They leave their dirty clothes on the floor, they get embarrassingly drunk, they say stupid shit now and again, but they take care of stuff, they are hard workers, they fix your truck and your washing machine and those little parts of you that you didn’t know were broken. That is why strong women end up in long term relationships with Bad Boys. They challenge them, and without a challenge everybody gets bored and then I guess they end up in the hospital or on the wrong side of town ;0

    1. When I say Bad Boys I´m talking about guy´s that are interesting to woman, they don´t have to be dick heads, a bad boy can be hard workers,self confident, funny, take care of the family,fix that washing machine, love her, but there will always be that bad boy element that woman like and I believe is some cases(at least with my parents) they will last together 40+ years.

      1. I just realized that I was referring to her comment on the post and not the actual post lol. It’s late!! Congrats to your parents, marriage is hard!!

        Lets face it, guys that are interesting to women are sometimes dickheads, they don’t have to be but when they have had too many drinks and don’t want the party to end or they are too busy watching football to worry about picking up their socks we women could love them to death but then we recall al the good things they do to!

        It is a two way street I am sure. My husband would probably say,

        “she is a great wife but really annoying when she is bitching about my dirty clothes on the floor when I am watching Duck Dynasty. Next time I will make her fix her own damn truck!!”

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